How to do it: A 40-year-old woman who can’t get enough sex

A 40-year-old recently divorced woman can orgasm well into the double digits with a session of 40 or more orgasms being the norm.

She can orgasm from masturbation, giving and receiving oral sex, penis-in-vagina sex, and anal.

She's sexually satisfied for no more than a day.

Dear How to Do It: Can you advise on the best way to stop having sex with someone after five years as friends with benefits or just sex friends? Ghosting leaves people hanging, wondering, and continuing to text ends up being kindest in the long run.

You can look at this relationship, looking at sex as a catalyst for exploring other ways of connecting to a partner.

Jessica : What I'm proposing above takes work, and sustained effort.

Meditate on why you’ve chosen to remain in the marriage, and repeat as needed.

Intellectual closeness is another possibility.

Ask your wife to touch you or hold you while you masturbate.