Care and Feeding: My mom says I bullied her when I was a child. Is this a thing that happens that I just don’t know about?

My mother keeps telling me that I bullied her when I was a child.

Do I not know what bullying is? Is this a thing that happens that I just don't know about? Don't think it likely you bullied your mother when you were a young child.

It is possible, even likely, that your mother struggled through your youth.

Nine is not too young an age to be experiencing moodiness and/or mood swings related to hormonal changes.

Mood changes are often the first sign of oncoming puberty.

You can be a stabilizing presence in her life simply by being available and participatory.

If you are concerned your daughter might be exhibiting more serious behaviors, pursue a consultation with a therapist.