How can I help my husband mourn the loss of his mistress? —Naked Neighbor

The woman who was having an affair with my husband died suddenly from an accident.

She was in the early weeks of pregnancy when she died and her husband doesn't know whether he or her husband was the father of her child.

My husband quit his job over her death, saying it was too traumatic to go to work.

Do I need to give him time to mourn the loss of his mistress?.

The next thing you knew, after coffee with the whistler, you were having sex with a 19-year-old man.

The strange thing is that I felt no guilt—and I am married! I enjoyed it, and when I left, he said, “Let’s keep it our little secret.”.

A few months ago , I started booking with a male massage therapist, and have been going to him consistently. I find him attractive—and at first , the massages definitely felt more personal and a bit suggestive, but not overtly sexual. Well, last session turned into an erotic massage and then some. I was definitely receptive to it.